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Child Custody AttorneyHave you been going through a divorce and can’t agree upon the matter of child custody? There is no doubt in the fact that child custody can be a challenging issue for both parents when going through a divorce. It is indeed one of the most stressful times for a couple. A lot of times, people only focus on mother-child relationships and completely disregard father-child relationships. However, our attorneys are not like that at all. We deem father-child relationships just as important and make sure to provide unbiased assistance in your child custody case. We understand how challenging it can be to represent a father in such cases, but we are ready to take that challenge and fight for the father’s rights. At Conway Law, the goal of our Santa Rosa child custody attorneys is to assist mothers, fathers, and/or grandparents and guardians to receive the representation they deserve as it relates to their child custody matter. We are the advocate you need in your corner, no matter what your gender is. Let our compassionate and professional legal team help you when you need it most.

Our Santa Rosa child custody attorneys at Conway Law have extensive experience helping clients navigate this difficult terrain and work toward a fair and equitable resolution that advances their children’s best interests.

Types Of Child Custody In California

The following are the different types of custody as described below in detail:

  • Legal Custody: When a parent has legal custody, that means that the parent has the right to decide the child. It covers all areas of the child’s participation in life. The parent can decide about various matters concerning the child’s life, which includes health, religion, education, etc., after consulting with the other parent. Most of the time, the court awards joint custody so that both the parent’s rights are protected and the child is satisfied.
  • Physical Custody: Physical custody is when one of the parents has the right to keep the child in his or her house. Where and when the children live falls under this type of custody.
  • Sole Custody: Sole custody is when the child lives with one parent exclusively and that parent has legal and physical custody of a child.

How Do I Get Custody Of My Child In Sonoma County?

To obtain custody of your child, you will file a petition asking the court to review your case. The court will then give you two dates: one for a Child Custody Recommending Counseling session with Family Court Services, and one for your court hearing.

Child Custody Recommending Counseling — still referred to by many parents as mediation — brings both parents together with a trained Family Court Services counselor to determine whether you can agree on a parenting plan. If you reach an agreement, that plan is submitted to the judge before your hearing. If you cannot agree, the counselor sends the judge a written recommendation on the disputed issues, along with the reasoning behind it.

Preparation matters here more than most parents realize. Sonoma County requires you to complete an orientation before the session, and any documentation you want the counselor to consider must be filed with the court in advance. Our Sonoma County family law attorneys at Conway Law can help you get those declarations and supporting documents filed correctly and on time.

Your court date follows. Depending on what happened at your counseling session, the judge will make a determination in your case. Having an attorney matters because the recommendation will not always go in your favor, and the hearing is where you argue your side so the judge’s decision better reflects your circumstances. To discuss your case and the possible outcomes, contact our Santa Rosa child custody attorneys at Conway Law.

Custody orders are not permanent. As children grow and circumstances change, either parent can ask the court to modify an existing custody order — though the standard you have to meet depends on whether your current order is considered final.

How Does A Parent Get Full Custody Of Her Child?

There was a time when the U.S. legal system presumed that children belonged with their mothers and favored mothers in custody disputes. Today, the law generally presumes it is in the children’s best interests to be raised by both parents and states increasingly favor agreements in which mothers and fathers share custody. To obtain full custody of a child, a parent must demonstrate that either the other parent is unfit to have the child or a different custody arrangement would negatively affect them.

What Do The Courts Look At When Determining Custody Of A Child?

When determining child custody cases, courts apply what is known as the “best interest of the child” standard. This standard is the cornerstone of every child custody decision and serves as the guiding principle for judges. While the concept may appear broad and somewhat subjective, understanding its application is crucial if you aim to achieve a favorable outcome in your custody case.

Key Aspects of the “Best Interest” Standard
The Family Code outlines several factors that judges must consider to determine what arrangement best serves the child’s needs. These factors aim to identify a stable and supportive environment where the child can thrive. However, when parents cannot agree on a parenting plan, the court steps in to make the final determination, weighing various considerations:

  • Emotional and Physical Needs: Ensuring the child’s emotional stability and physical well-being is a top priority.
  • Parental Stability: The court evaluates each parent’s ability to provide a safe, stable, and nurturing environment.
  • Parent-Child Relationship: The bond between the child and each parent plays a significant role in custody decisions.
  • Parental Cooperation: The court considers each parent’s willingness to co-parent and facilitate the child’s relationship with the other parent.
  • Child’s Preference: Depending on the child’s age and maturity, their preferences may also be taken into account.

The word “discretion” is very important. We call it the big “D” because it gives the Family Court reasonable latitude such that there is often not a strict right or wrong decision unless the judge abuses his or her discretion when making a ruling. This court discretion when assessing the child’s best interest is also what makes child custody decisions difficult to successfully appeal. When an appellate court takes a look at a judge’s decision on what facts he or she gave less or more consideration, they generally have to find (with some exceptions of course) that the judge abused his or her discretion when evaluating and weighing the facts.

When Custody Becomes Contentious

Custody disputes often arise when parents cannot agree on a parenting plan. In such cases, the court must step in and make decisions it deems ideal for the child. While this process can be emotionally taxing, being prepared and understanding the factors involved can significantly influence the outcome.

Certain disputes are contested more heavily than others. Requests to move away with a child are among the most difficult custody matters Sonoma County courts decide, and the recommending counselor will not make a recommendation on whether the move should be allowed — that determination is left entirely to the judge.

Tips for Navigating Child Custody Cases

  • Understand the “Best Interest” Factors: Familiarize yourself with the criteria courts use to evaluate custody arrangements.
  • Demonstrate Stability: Show that you can provide a consistent and nurturing environment for your child.
  • Prioritize Cooperation: Display a willingness to co-parent and maintain a positive relationship with your ex-partner for the child’s sake.
  • Document Evidence: Keep records of your involvement in your child’s life, including school events, medical appointments, and daily care. The same habit matters after your order is in place — a contemporaneous log is what you will need if you ever have to enforce a custody order your co-parent isn’t following.
  • Work with an Experienced Attorney: A knowledgeable family law attorney can help present your case effectively and protect your parental rights.

How Do Joint Legal And Physical Custody Affect Child Support?

Joint custody doesn’t negate a child support obligation. Even if both parents have joint custody of their children, one parent may still be required to pay child support. This is because child support is based on the income and earning potential of each parent, as well as the amount of time each parent spends with the children. It is rare for both parents to have exactly the same income and share custody on an equal basis, so it is likely that one parent will have a child support obligation.

The reason why there still is a child support obligation even when custody is shared equally is that our child support guidelines calculate the obligation based on time spent with each parent and the income of each parent. So even if the child spends equal time with each parent, the parent with the higher income will owe the child support.

Child Custody FAQs in Santa Rosa

No. California Family Code § 3040 prohibits courts from preferring a parent based on sex or gender. Sonoma County judges apply the child's best interest standard to both parents equally. Fathers can and do receive joint or sole custody when the evidence supports it.

There is no age at which a child chooses. Under Family Code § 3042, a child 14 or older must be allowed to address the court about custody unless the judge finds it isn't in their best interest. Younger children may be heard at the court's discretion. The judge still decides.

Both parents meet with a trained Family Court Services counselor to build a parenting plan. The session lasts up to two hours, and Sonoma County requires you to watch an orientation video and complete an intake form beforehand. If you reach an agreement, it goes to the judge; if you don't, the counselor sends the judge a written recommendation. Read our full guide to CCRC appointments in Sonoma County.

Temporary orders typically take several weeks to a few months after filing a Request for Order (FL-300), since the court schedules your CCRC session before the hearing. Emergency orders can move in days. Final judgments take longer. Timelines vary with calendar congestion and case complexity.

Usually not without the other parent's written consent or a court order. Moving your child unilaterally when a custody order is in place can trigger an emergency request to have them returned and can seriously damage your position. Many California orders also require 45 days' written notice before you change your child's residence.

How a judge decides depends on your current arrangement. A parent with sole physical custody has a presumptive right to relocate, while joint physical custody means the court re-decides custody under the best-interest standard — weighing the distance, your child's age and stability, and your reasons for moving.

Read our full guide to move-away requests in Santa Rosa.

File a Request for Order (FL-300) and show a significant change in circumstances since the last order — or that both parents agree. Common grounds include a parent relocating, a change in work schedule, or safety concerns. You'll be referred to CCRC before your hearing.

Read our full guide to changing a custody order in California.

Yes, but parentage must be legally established first — through a Voluntary Declaration of Parentage, a court order, or a parentage case. Until then, an unmarried father has no enforceable custody or visitation rights, even if he's on the birth certificate in some circumstances.

Document every missed exchange with dates and times, and save any texts where your co-parent acknowledges the schedule. From there you can file a Request for Order asking the court to enforce the order and award make-up time under Family Code section 3028, pursue a contempt action, or ask the court to modify custody based on the pattern. Don't withhold child support in response — support and parenting time are separate obligations, and stopping payments exposes you to your own enforcement action. Read our full guide to enforcing a custody order in California.

Yes, in limited circumstances. Family Code § 3104 allows grandparents to petition for visitation when there's a pre-existing bond with the child and visitation serves the child's best interest. Courts generally won't grant it while the parents are married and living together, with specific exceptions.

Contact Our Santa Rosa, CA Child Custody Attorney

If you face a child custody matter in Santa Rosa or elsewhere in California, you can contact our Santa Rosa child custody attorney at Conway Law Trial Attorneys.  If you work with our firm, you can be confident that we will do everything in our power to ensure that you are being looked after as we fight to protect both you and your family.